Dealing With Mean People, Or, Lets Talk About Assholes on Grindr

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So, Ive mentioned this before, Im gay. and as a gay person, one thing you have to deal with in life is a horrible app called Grindr.  

Basically, I have never been to a gay bar or gay club in my life, and that is largely due to me being completely insecure with the gay community because I have never really had any good gay influences in my life.  So, if I ever want to go on dates or anything I have to weed through the filth on Grindr which, for all you hetero people out there, is like Tindr….but without the Match/Not Mach aspect.

and I will tell you, you see some colorful and exciting profiles

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But this is on a bigger scale.  This is about dealing with mean people in general.   because lets face it, WE ALL ENCOUNTER PEOPLE WHO, FOR NO REASON AT ALL, ARE JUST MEAN 

And what do we do?   Because all of us with depression, anxiety, and panic, take it to heart, and beat ourselves up whenever anyone is mean to us.

ITS OUR FAULT we say

EVERYONE ELSE PROBABLY THINKS THE SAME THING

WHY DO I EVEN BOTHER? 

And then lo and behold, we are in the negative spiral, but why?  Why do we beat ourselves up?

THERE IS NO POINT.   If someone else is going to mean, don’t give and allow them to hurt you.

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We, my friends, are the ones who have to change the world.  We have to bring cheer to this world.   The common man will never how hurtful they can be because they’ve never really experience true pain.

We are all trying so hard.   If you’re someone who has found this blog because you’re looking for blogs to help with anxiety, depression, anxiety, or any other reason you’re reading this, YOU ARE TRYING TO HELP YOURSELF! 

So don’t let some jackass who hates themselves bring you down.   You are the bigger man in the situation

So, smile, give em a good “I’m better than you look” and walk away

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Not Proofread!

~ The Dark Horse

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